You’ve Got to “Crush It!”

Last Friday night, I attended an unconventional book-signing/networking party in Boston that brought together Gary Vaynerchuk, Jeff Cutler, and Mike Langford along with the usual suspects of the Boston social media scene. I picked up a copy of Gary’s book and then–because I missed the earlier train home, had an hour and a half to read it while waiting for the next commuter rail.

Gary is a “rock star” in the social media space because he used Twitter and Facebook to take his video blog, Wine Library TV, to stratospheric levels of popularity. He’s an inspirational phenomena of optimism, energy, and attitude whose contagious enthusiasm motivates and inspires.

I have a skeptical streak…and I will not to waste time here critiquing but instead focus on my takeaways. Like so many sources out there…you take what you need; you find the parts that challenge you to think.

People like Gary have aligned their passion with a platform that essentially makes sharing and self-promotion one and the same. The more he talks, the more people want to listen. Are his ideas revolutionary? No. Is there some deep insight in this book that will change your life? No. Is there a plan you can apply to your business idea to make a fortune and replicate Gary’s success, including a 7-figure book deal? No. So what is the point?

The point is that social media channels like Twitter, Facebook, and blogging give every person the power to both publish their own experiences AND, more importantly, CONNECT with others who share and amplify those passions. Find what you love to do and “Crush it!” Every person can become an enthusiastic authority about something and then, as they draw attention to their passion, perhaps they can “monetize” it. It’s not even all about money though really–if you could just afford to live your dreams, would it matter to make $60 million or $60 thousand a year?

But on this path, you really need to “Crush it.” To do that, you need to love what you are doing. A hobby blog about something you are kind of interested in is not going to do it. Starting a blog at your company and following the steps to promote it…is not going to do it. It’s not that Gary Vaynerchuck has a great video blog about wine. It’s that Gary Vaynerchuck is the Wine Library TV guy.

It’s not about expert opinions. I don’t know if Gary is an expert on wine. It doesn’t seem to matter. If you want a professional wine evaluation, I’m sure you can get that from people who are much less famous and making a lot less money. But they are boring. Gary is fun. You can complain that it’s not fair (if you are one of those people, for example) or you can realize, hey, it doesn’t freakin matter. Maybe if I find the thing I love and share it with everyone, they will love me enough that I can just do that and be happy.

But you’ve got to Crush it. Can you think of 100 or 500 blog posts you could write about the thing you are excited about? Do you want to scour the internet for information on that topic, commenting on everone else’s blog and engaging with everyone you can find? Are you motivated to hustle in this way? If not, don’t bother because there can be only one.

You need to find that passion…the thing that keeps you awake at night and is the burning fuel that will sustain you through what others would see as a lot of hard, tedious work. The good news is that social media gives you another tool that has the potential to hit the ball out of the park.

But you also have to pay the rent. That statement is the dream-killing, self-defeating reality check on so many aspirations for so many people. Fine, so pay the rent. Get a job and work 8 hours a day or whatever. But that leaves 16 hours for other things. After family and eating…ok, I guess you need to give up sleep. That’s the deal, really.

If you want to turn a dream into reality, you need to “Crush it.” You go “all in” on it and when you see an opportunity, you throw everything you have at it. Sunday, the Patriots beat the Titans 59-0 in 3 quarters of football. That sucks for the Titans, but it’s what happens when one team gives up against a team that doesn’t have a concept of “dialing things back a bit.” It does not mean you have a license/excuse to neglect other priorities…but when you are doing the thing you love–you need to give it all you have.

The passion is hard to find.

I found it hard, it’s hard to find, oh well, whatever, nevermind.

I don’t really know what Curt Cobain was thinking when he wrote that, but for me it symbolizes the fleeting nature of dreams for so many…especially those of us in Generation X who allow our cynicism to truncate promising optimism.

I do not write from the platform of a $60 million wine busines. I’m excited I found a project to do some consulting work this week that could turn into a longer term project. But what keeps me awake at night is thinking about how I can take this topic of active transporation, apply it to my town, and pull together my love of cycling and running, my desire to be a part of civic life, and my analytical and techincal skills to not only support my family, but make my world a better place.